A man who had never succeeded in arousing a woman consulted his female boss at work, and even though she was usually strict, she took his serious concerns to heart. She suggested, "Wouldn't it feel good to gently touch the clitoris...?" or "Maybe you'd be more likely to reach orgasm if you put your hand around my neck a bit while we're having sex..." As they practiced these techniques, the female boss began to desire a raw penis.