"Do you have plans after this?" When someone asks and answers with "Well, sort of...", it usually means the plans aren't that big. It's likely something that could be done or gone to on another day, so if you invite them, they usually come along. It also depends on the flow of the conversation and various other atmospheres... Listening to various stories, surprisingly mature for a 20-year-old, very calm. It's getting a bit nice, so I gently touch them. There's no atmosphere of dislike, and they're matching me, which feels oddly erotic. It's amazing how you can start with "Let's go all the way!" and actually make it to the end. It's quite something, isn't it?